“Freedom through pleasure”…say’s who??
Speaker. Teacher. The “Freedom Architect.”
For years, I followed the rules. I built what looked like the American Dream: two incredible kids, supporting my ex-husband’s business, starting a real estate venture, educating my children, saving, budgeting, and hacking every opportunity to create the freedom I craved. I was achieving, serving, and striving—but always for everyone else’s vision of success.
I thought financial freedom involved increasing numbers, being “responsible,” and doing everything right. I thought success meant working harder, giving more, and sacrificing myself along the way. And for a while, I did exactly that—pushing to please others, chasing societal expectations, and denying my own dreams.
Then one day, it hit me: I was living someone else’s life. High-achieving? Absolutely. Fulfilled? Not even close. I realized that if I kept playing by these rules, I would never have the freedom, joy, or pleasure I wanted—not for me, and not for my kids.
So I made a radical choice. I got divorced. I reinvented my life from scratch as a single mom hungry for more. I started aligning my life and finances around my desires, not the shoulds. And when I finally put pleasure into my portfolio, I dissolved the constraints of scarcity. Everything changed.
I hit my first six-figure year in business. I paid off my debt completely. And on my 42nd birthday, I became financially free—quantum-leaping far faster into the life of freedom I’d dreamed of than I ever thought possible.
It was in that transformation that I discovered the framework that would guide hundreds of people after me: my Pleasure-Based Wealth Process.
When I realized I had been living by everyone else’s rules—sacrificing my desires, chasing societal expectations, and denying my own dreams—I knew I had to do something radically different, and when I put pleasure into my portfolio, everything changed. Scarcity dissolved. Stress around money lifted. Opportunities I hadn’t even imagined began showing up in my life.
That experience became the foundation of what I now call the Pleasure-Based Wealth Process. This is more than your typical financial strategy. Think of it as my way of helping you completely reimagine how you relate to money, freedom, and yourself. I work with you to design a wealth plan that aligns with who you truly are, integrating pleasure, joy, and personal sovereignty into your financial life.
Through this process, I guide my clients to:
Dissolve scarcity-based thinking and replace it with abundance and ease.
Make empowered decisions around money that honor their desires, values, and goals.
Build wealth while cultivating emotional freedom, energy, and authentic relationships.
Design a life and financial system that is unapologetically theirs.
Imagine making money decisions with clarity and confidence, reshaping your financial life to reflect your values, and enjoying the process as you do it. That’s what the Pleasure-Based Wealth Process offers: a roadmap to financial and emotional freedom that doesn’t require endless sacrifice, hustle, or stress.
That’s when the Pleasure-Based Wealth Process was born.
That is what I’m most proud of: I help people create freedom and build wealth their way. I don’t grow unless my clients are thriving. And honestly—how many coaches can truly say that?
And what’s even cooler? Every client does it their own way.
Some use strategies I’ve developed, some lean into creative hacks, some follow entirely new paths. The common thread is this: we’re co-creating a life and financial system that actually feels aligned with who they are. There’s no one right way—only the way that lights you up.
I cannot imagine loving my work more. I am fully lit up by the transformation, freedom, and joy my clients experience. I’m so grateful I didn’t listen to the voices that said it couldn’t be done as a single mom, and even more excited to show my clients that they, too, can throw out the old rules and design a life and wealth system that’s designed to perfectly fit their life.
And if you’re a little nosy like me and thinking,
“Cool, congrats! But tell us the JUICY stuff about what happened after your divorce…”
The answer is… it got really, really good.
After my divorce, I bought a house for my two boys and me—a home that wasn’t just a roof over our heads, but a space that welcomes my deepest friendships and the people who truly get me. I created a life built around connection, alignment, and joy.
Four years after stepping away from my role as a stay-at-home mom, I hit my first six-figure year. I paid off my house, then my rental property, and reached financial independence (meaning work became optional). From that place, I could finally focus my energy on what lights me up: leaving a meaningful impact and guiding others toward freedom, joy, and success.
Since then, I’ve published my first book, Dare to Desire, traveled the world, spoken across the country, and built my local community by leading workshops on freedom, wealth, and pleasure-based living.
I know it can get really, really good for you too. And I’d be honored to be your partner and guide as you design a life, wealth system, and freedom plan that’s unapologetically yours.
You can sign up for The Pleasure-Based Partnership below.